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1. "Caretaking is never about the other person. It's about wanting to feel needed because you're afraid you're not wanted." ~ Claire Fontaine
2. "We carve our destinies blindfolded, with sharp knives." ~ Claire Fontaine
3. "It is its own religion, this love. Uncontainable, savage, and without end, it is what I feel for my child." ~ Claire Fontaine
4. "God doesn't create suffering Claire, we do. We make the world and then we break it." ~ Claire Fontaine
5. "We tell our daughters we don't trust them in a thousand ways. We don't consciously mean to, but we steal their confidence in their own strength by stealing their pain. And their confidence in our strength by saying we aren't strong enough to see them struggle." ~ Claire Fontaine
6. "[Samantha Dunn] wrote that when God wants your attention, first He throws feathers. After that, He starts throwing bricks." ~ Claire Fontaine
7. "These are the kinds of regrets all women have, mistakes and missteps, paths not chosen, opportunities gone. Youth gone. Forever. And until I honestly acknowledge how this regret feels, acknowledge that I'm not okay with how some of my life went, it's like having a fake past, and a fake present, which is surely a prescription for a fake future." ~ Claire Fontaine
8. "I could see where I'd mistaken drama and conflict for life, which meant years of living reactively instead of generatively, a life I let be determined by circumstances and the choices of others. We like to think life happens to us, but pretty much everything in your life is there because you wanted it, even if unconsciously. Results, I have learned, don't lie." ~ Claire Fontaine
9. "What was the payoff? It obviously kept me in my cozy zone of being in control, being a good mother, with a good daughter. Most of all, I realize, is that it allowed me to maintain the lie that she was healed, that Nick hadn't permanently damaged her, that I'd truly saved her. Because if I did, if there was no lasting residue of him, it meant that the denial that kept me in the marriage long enough for him to hurt her didn't help create the situation she's in now. The person who I worked hardest to keep safe seems to have been me." ~ Claire Fontaine
10. "- Child is abused, perpetrator threatens to hurt mother. Child feels protective of mother. - Struggle to escape perp reinforces feelings of mutual protection. It's Mom and I against the world. - Something necessary at the time later creates "enmeshment." Child doesn't see her actions as separate from mother. Even during normal adolescent individuation. But-- - Normal individuation doesn't happen in abuse survivors. They don't feel normal, so they--- Act out in unhealthy or self-destructive ways, which creates--- Fear and pain for mother, which creates-- - Guilt for child who still feels responsible for mother's emotional health. - Child seeks release from the guilt and from not feeling normal, which leads to-- - Escape to the world of other not normal people, where mother can't see her child self-destruct, which leads to--"The bad news." ~ Claire Fontaine
11. "Once your baby arrives, the world is no more the same than you are. Because from our very bodies we add to the collective human destiny. Our deepest urge is always toward life, to wholeness and well being." ~ Claire Fontaine
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Credevo l'avrei sentito. Il punto di rottura, di non ritorno. Il momento in cui tutto finisce, perchè semplicemente non ce l'hai fai più. Pensavo avrebbe fatto male. Invece non sento nulla. Forse è proprio questo il punto di rottura: il nulla. Ok. Ci sono. E ora?"
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